Sacred Marriage DVD and Participant Guide

Sacred Marriage Participant GuideSummary: Great book, disappointing discussion guide.

I am a big fan of the book Sacred Marriage.  My wife and I read it six or seven years ago and thought it was a big help to our marriage at the time.  Since then I have recommend it to many and given away several copies.

What I like about Sacred Marriage is that it takes the focus away from what can I get from marriage to put it to what can I give to my spouse (and at the same time learn spiritually from marriage.)

Even before reading this book I frequently told people that nothing had taught me more about my spiritual life more than marriage.  I do not think that everyone need to be married in order to grow spiritually.  But being with a person that intimately reveals things about yourself that make a difference to your spiritual life if you choose to pay attention to them.

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Non-Fiction Beach Reads – Part 3 – Non-Fiction

This is part 3 of my series on potential beach reads for this summer.  Part One and Two are fiction books and part Four (tomorrow) is summer releases.

My summer beach reads tend to be fiction.  But when I read non-fiction I tend to read biography, memoir or ‘light non-fiction’.  Here are my picks of books that I have read that are worth reading.

The Pleasures of Reading in an Age of Distraction The Pleasures of Reading in an Age of Distraction by Alan Jacobs – Bookwi.se Review

171 pages, 16 of 18 reviews are 4 or 5-star, Lending Enabled 

What could be better than reading about reading?  Alan Jacobs has a book about finding the joys of reading.  This is not fluff, this is about seeking joy in reading, while thinking seriously about what reading is all about.

Booked: Literature in the Soul of Me by Karen Swallow PriorBooked: Literature in the Soul of Me by Karen Swallow Prior – Bookwi.se Review

220 pages, 22 of 23 reviews are 4 or 5-star, Lending Enabled 

Booked is a memoir about how reading helped a girl (and then a woman) grow and learn.  Each chapter focuses on a single book and a main point about what she learned from that book.  My only complaint about the book is that it is focused exclusively on the classics.

Surprised by Oxford by Carolyn WeberSurprised in Oxford: A Memoir by Carolyn Webber – Bookwi.se Review (Second Reading)

474 pages, 146 of 167 reviews are 4 or 5-star

This is probably is my favorite memoir ever.  Carolyn writes about her year studying Literature at Oxford.  During that year she finds Christian faith and maybe a something more.

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Mountains Beyond Mountains: The Man Who Would Cure the World

Mountains beyond Mountains by Tracy KidderTakeaway: An example of what one person, with help, can do to change the world.

Paul Farmer is one of the heroes of the modern medical world.  A man of boundless energy, he started his Haitian medical clinic while in medical school (flying back and forth between Boston and Haiti).

Over time the work expanded and Farmer has become known as much for his work with AIDS and TB in Peru and Russia as his original work as a doctor in Haiti.

The early parts of the book read almost like Hagiography because of the author’s, Tracy Kidder, devotion to Farmer. But this was not a short term relationship between Farmer and Kidder. Kidder knew Farmer for over a decade when he wrote the book and they spent a lot of time together.

So Kidder is a character in the book and the later parts of the book where he is writing about things he directly observed are better written, more balanced and nuanced.

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Summer Beach Reads – Part 2 – More Fiction

Yesterday, I posted part one of my recommendations for summer beach reads.  Today is part two of great fiction beach reads.  Thursday I will post great non-fiction beach reads.  And Friday I will post about books that are not out yet that look to be good summer reads.

Be sure to leave some of your own suggestions in the comments.

The Time Traveler's Wife by Audrey NiffeneggerThe Time Traveler’s Wife by Audrey Niffenegger – Bookwi.se Review

546 pages, 1797 of 2474 reviews are 4 or 5-star

The Time Traveler’s Wife is one of my favorite novels ever.  You may have seen the movie.  The movie is fine, but a great example of a movie that gets the basic story right, but misses all of what makes the book great.

The story is about a man that spontaneously time travels.  And the woman who will eventually become his wife.  When they first meet she is 6 and he is 38.  When he first meets her she is 21 and he is 26.  This is a great book.

This is a book that is only available as paperback or audiobook (the author is opposed to ebooks)

Eleanor and Park by Rainbow RowellEleanor and Park by Rainbow Rowell – Bookwi.se Review

335 pages, 142 of 156 reviews are 4 or 5-star

I am a fan of good young adult novels.  A good young adult novel can encourage teens to look at things differently, can encourage adults to remember their youth and can encourage everyone to dream of what can be.

Eleanor and Park is set in the mid 1980s, when I was a teen.  Eleanor is poor and abused by her mother’s boyfriend.  Park is the only (half) Asian kid in a small Iowa town.  Neither is what you would call ‘cool’.  But together they forge an unlikely friendship and eventually a romance.  It is one of the better young adult novels I have read in a while. (Still has sex and language and is not for all young adults themselves.)

Wool Omnibus by Hugh HoweyWool Omnibus by Hugh Howey – Bookwi.se Review (part 1, part 2)

550 pages, 5107 of 5426 reviews are 4 or 5-star, Lending Enabled, Audiobook is discounted to $1.99 with purchase of Kindle Book 

Wool is an independent author’s phenomenon.  It is not at the number of sales of the 50 Shades series.  But 50 Shades really took off once it was picked up by a major publisher.

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What is the Trinity? by RC Sproul

What is the Trinity by RC SproulSummary: Short Introduction to the Trinity.

Last week RC Sproul and his publisher (Reformation Trust) released the entire Crucial Questions series for free on kindle (list and links here.)

I have read Sproul’s Holiness of God and ,with a few reservations, thought it was good. But that has been the only of Sproul’s books I have read.

I read this introduction to the Trinity in bed after my wife had gone to sleep.  It is not long (63 pages) and even then it felt shorter.

But Sproul included a lot of content in that short book.  He looks at what the Trinity is not, by looking at some of the Christian heresies that forced the church to clarify it teaching.

Sproul made a distinction between paradox, mysteries and irrationality and concludes that the Trinity is not a paradox or irrationality but a mystery. (A more complete look at this idea is in the very good book Mystery of God.)

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Beach Read Suggestions – Part 1

Summer is a traditional time for reading.  Vacations, beach, pool all give us time to relax, unwind and read.

I have three posts of books so far (Fiction Part 1, Fiction Part 2 and Non-fiction).

Below I have listed books that I have read, a short description, a link to my review and an Amazon link.

Ready Player OneReady Player One by Ernest Cline – Bookwi.se Review

384 pages, 1603 of 1830 reviews are 4 or 5-star

Ready Player One is a great science fiction book for people that do not normally like science fiction.  It is set in 2044 when the whole world spends most of their lives in an immersive internet, the Oasis.  The real world is falling apart, but what everyone is interested in is the finding the puzzle in the Oasis, while will give the winner ownership of the Oasis.

Wade (online name Percival) is 18, an orphan and in poverty.  The race to win the Oasis is his only chance to make something of himself.  This was recommended to me first by my sister in law (not a science fiction fan) and later my wife really enjoyed it (also not a science fiction fan).  I have read both on kindle and listened on audiobook.  I recommend both.

Bel Canto by Ann PatchettBel Canto by Ann Patchett – Bookwi.se Review

352 pages, 544 of 826 reviews are 4 or 5-star

I love beautiful lyrical writing.  Patchett knows how to do that.  This is a story that from the beginning you know is going to end badly.  A number of dignitaries are taken hostage by revolutionaries in a fictional South American country.  The story progresses as one woman and 57 men are held for a long time.  People on both sides begin to see one another as human.  But they are stuck in a situation where there is no good way out.  It is a tradegy (and reading by the beach can help offset the sadness).  But there is also several love stories and wonderful insights into the human condition.  (I originally listened to this on audiobook and the narration is excellent.)

The Fault in Our Stars by John GreenThe Fault in Our Stars by John Green – Bookwi.se Review

337 pages, 3114 of 3319 reviews are 4 or 5-star

This book was on a number best books of 2012 lists.  It is a young adult novel.  It is about two teens with cancer that fall in love.  I have finished almost 90 books so far this year and it is the best fiction book I have read this year.  I am planning on re-reading it this summer. (I originally listened to this on audiobook and the narration is excellent.)

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The Genius of Ancient Man: Evolution’s Nightmare! by Don Landis

The authors of this book are very straightforward about the assumptions underlying their approach to science: they believe the Bible is true and authoritative, that it should be interpreted literally, and that it should inform every aspect of one’s life, including forming your paradigm for approaching science. Even if you disagree with their starting points … Read more

The Swan Thieves by Elizabeth Kostova

Summary: I gave up after 40 percent because I just didn’t care any more. I borrowed Swan Thieves from the library because I loved Kostova’s first book, The Historian. The Swan Thieves is not the Historian.  The Historian was a wide ranging (and too long) look at the idea of Dracula.  It came out just … Read more

Mystical Paths by Susan Howatch (Church of England #5)

Mystical Paths by Susan HowatchSummary: The son of Jon Darrow, Nicholas, has to come to his own faith and purpose.  

I am continuing to really enjoy the Church of England Series.  Mystical Paths is the fifth of the Church of England series and is the start of a spinoff series about Nicholas that starts with High Fliers.  There is one more in the Church of England Series, Absolute Truths.  But that book goes back to the 1960s again and revisits the original protagonist that started the series, Charles Ashworth.

Mystical Paths broke the series format again.  This book is mostly a mystery/thriller.  Christian Aysgarth, the oldest son of Neville (subject of books 3 and 4) died in 1965.  But Katie, his wife is still troubled with the thought that it was not an accident, but a suicide (and she is to blame).

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Third Shift – Pact – Part 8 of Silo Series by Hugh Howey

Third Shift - Pact - Part 8 of Silo Series by Hugh HoweySummary: The final of the second series.

Hugh Howey is an independent author phenomenon.  Most authors do not make $15-20,000 a month and decide to turn down a 7 figure advance on a book contract after selling the rights to their books to Ridley Scott.

But Hugh Howey, after a little over a year gets an article in the Wall Street Journal about his writing/marketing prowess.

Third Shift (Pact) follows the same basic mold.  This is the third (and last) of this second series.  Donald (who was sort of tricked into working in the Silo initiative) is again woken up to deal with a problem.

And Solo’s back story is finally revealed.

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