Someone Could Get Hurt: A Memoir of Twenty-First-Century Parenthood by Drew Magary

Someone Could Get Hurt: A Memoir of Twenty-First-Century Parenthood by Drew MagarySummary: Funny, heartfelt memoir of parenting by a normal guy that loves his kids.

The world may not need another memoir by a Dad about being a Dad, but if the genre is going to expand, this is not a bad addition.

I am a stay at home Dad. Previously I was a nanny for my nieces for 5 year until they started school. I am not particularly a fan of ‘Dumb Dad’ jokes or sitcoms or books or other media that highlight idiots with male genitalia that happen to have fathered children. I am also not a particular fan of ‘super-Dad’ books.

Either side is about a stereotype and not a real person. Real parents love their kids, make mistakes, want to do better, still screw up but are not complete idiots.

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One More Thing By B. J. Novak

One More Thing is a collection of stories and musings by comedian, actor, producer and now writer, B.J. Novak. B.J. Novak first gained notoriety for his work as writer and actor on The Office. The only major theme throughout the stories is that they have a common overlying purpose, which is to entertain. His stories mention heaven, revenge, romance, sexbots, literature, Tony Robbins, Kellogg’s and Kate Moss. Some stories are many pages and some last only a page.

I am a fan of The Office and I have always enjoyed B.J. Novak’s approach to comedy. I would describe it as being dry without being too British. One of my favorite B.J. Novak moments is when he uncovered for America the Cadbury Conspiracy on the Conan O’Brien show. I think he is great because his jokes aren’t really jokes they seem to mainly be observations on the real life. I learned from reading more about Novak’s life that he comes from a very creative and talented family, and he is a very intelligent person as he graduated with honors from Harvard. After reading this book, I am confident that his success on The Office was not a fluke and that he will continue to humor us for years to come.

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Spiritual Friendship: Finding Love in the Church as a Celibate Gay Christian by Wesley Hill

Spiritual Friendship: Finding Love in the Church as a Celibate Gay Christian by Wesley Hill

Summary: We may be able to live without sex, but we cannot live without friendship.

In Wesley Hill’s earlier book Washed and Waiting, Hill makes a case for the reality and immutability of same sex attraction and Gay Christians and also the importance of maintaining traditional Christian teaching on sex and marriage. Which leaves Hill and all other Gay Christians with celibacy as their only option.

I am not completely convinced that Hill has made a universal argument with his first book, but I do think that Hill understands the purpose and meaning of sexuality better than most and that he has insight into sexuality in the modern world that can only be obtained by one that is observing it from the outside.

Spiritual Friendship seems like the natural next step. After reading his first book, I thought that deep friendship was absolutely necessary for those that have decided to be celibate (whether Gay or straight) because despite the fact that some are called to be celibate within Christianity, we are all called to be in a church, a part of the universal body of Christ, and as Hill argues, involved deeply in the lives of particular friends.  And I became a regular reader when he and Ron Belgau and others started a group blog called Spiritual Friendship.

As with his first book, this book is memoir-ish. He is making an argument (in the original book for celibacy and here for the importance of deep friendship) but he is not making an abstract or theoretical argument. Hill has lived in the brokenness of needing friends, of the joy of finding friends, of the pain of losing friends and the fear of deep friendships that might be lost.

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Station Eleven: A Novel by Emily St John Mandel

Summary: A virus kills nearly everyone, society collapses, but some survive.

Station Eleven has had a lot of hype. It has been short listed for a ton of awards, John Wilson (from Books and Culture) loved it, a lot of people that I know really liked it.

And I thought it was ok. A solid, but not earth-shattering end of the world novel.

There are a lot of characters and none of them are really the main character. Station Eleven moves back and forth between characters and from before the fall of civilization to after the fall. By the end, there is at least the hint of a complete story, connecting all the various characters and times.

The fall is caused by a swine flu variant called ‘The Georgian Flu’. In a matter of hours from contamination, with basic flu symptoms, 199 out of 200 people die. Within a few days complete panic has hit. Within a few weeks civilization has completely collapsed. The electric grid goes down, transportation stops because no one can get gas (and what gas is available goes bad in a few years.) The sheer size of the devastation (and the fear of a reoccurrence of the outbreak) keeps people in small groups and afraid of strangers.

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The Lost World of Adam and Eve: Genesis 2-3 and the Human Origins Debate by John Walton

Summary: An extension of Walton’s earlier work to Genesis 2 and 3.

I wish I could say everything that is important is also interesting. But I cannot. There are a ton of interesting books that have no importance whatsoever. And there are also a ton of important books that are as dull as dirt.

John Walton is doing important work. In his earlier book The Lost World of Genesis 1, Walton laid out a case for the creation story being focused not on physical creation (the how) but on functional creation (the why). But possibly even more important, he made a case for Genesis 1 being primarily concerned with the creation story being actually about the dedication of the earth as a temple to God, and the placement of us humans as God’s priests in that temple.

The main weakness of that earlier book is that Genesis 2 has a second creation story and even if Walton is right about Genesis 1, Genesis 3, the story of the fall is theologically seen as just as important to many Christians.

The Lost World of Adam and Eve is the next step in that puzzle. Walton’s method, in this book and the last, is to make a proposition and the defend that proposition and then move to the next. So in the earlier book he had 19 chapters slowly making the case bit by bit for why so many have misread Genesis 1 for so long.

In this book there are 21 propositions about the purpose and meaning of Genesis 2 and 3 and how they theologically matter to Christians today. One of those chapters is largely written by NT Wright about how Paul understood Adam. And while that is not one of Wright’s clearer works, it really stands out in the book because Walton can be so dull. I don’t want to harp on boringness of the book too much, but it is a real problem.

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Spiritual Direction and Meditation by Thomas Merton

Summary: Two pamphlet length articles joined together for a short book.

Spiritual Direction has been an interest of mine for the past several years. With the rise of renewed interest in liturgical and sacramental expressions of faith, the historic practice of spiritual direction has also come back into awareness.

As a number of friends and internet-only acquaintances are becoming Anglican/Episcopal or Catholic I keep hearing of more and more that have been going to spiritual directors. (And a number that have not been converting are also going to spiritual directors.)

Many of those spiritual directors are Catholic (or at least were trained by Catholic spiritual directors.) I have been going to a Spiritual Director for nearly two years now. My own spiritual director is protestant, but goes to a Catholic spiritual director himself and was formally trained in spiritual direction with mostly Catholic instructors.

Spiritual direction has a long and varied history. But it was originally the practice of monks and nuns. Thomas Merton, one of the most recognizable monks of the 20th century was writing primarily to the monastics here but intending to be overheard by those that were not living a monastic life.

Spiritual direction is not about finding the wise guru and learning from them. Nor is it about counseling. According to Merton:

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The Beautiful Mystery (Chief Inspector Gamache #8) by Louise Penny

Summary: A previously hidden order of monks calls on Gamache when their Prior is murdered.

Louise Penny has frequently hinted at religious issues in the previous books. But with Beautiful Mystery, set in a monastery, religious thoughts are on full display.

Penny is playing with the recent popularity of Gregorian Chant. In her fictional world, the rise of interest about Gregorian Chant is the responsibility of a previously hidden order of monks from rural Canada.

This order was among the earliest settlers of Quebec to escape potential investigation by the Inquisition. And once established, they fell off the radar of the church and intentionally hid.

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Misreading Scripture with Western Eyes: Removing Cultural Blinders to Better Understand the Bible by Randoph Richards and Brandon O’Brien

UnknownSummary: Culture and assumptions matter. And when reading scripture, something written to a different culture, time and place, those considerations are important.

Misreading Scripture With Western Eyes I think will become my new recommendation for the place to start when thinking about how we read and understand scripture.

I have made a pretty concerted effort as a lay person to understand hermeneutics (the science and art of reading and understanding scripture) over the past half dozen years. Much of what I have read is oriented toward the academic, the theologian or the pastor. And I am glad I have read it. But books like that are not easy to recommend to an average reader that wants an overview, and doesn’t have a good background in theology, biblical languages or history or linguistics.

Misreading Scripture With Western Eyes is an introduction to cultural anthropology as much as it is an introduction to scripture. And this is really important. Some conservative Christians in their reaction against liberal cultural values also react against understanding different cultures and perspectives as ‘post-modern’. This often occurs not only in an attempt to uphold Christian values, but because some conservatives are also somewhat insular and have only been exposed to US American Culture.

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A Trick of the Light (Chief Inspector Gamache #7) by Louis Penny

UnknownSummary: Clara is finally getting her art show, but someone is murdered at the party.

Series fiction is a tricky thing. Veer too far from what made the stories popular and fans will complain. Stick with what made the series popular too closely and even the fans will get bored.

So Louise Penny has been wise to approximately every other book move the crime away from Three Pines while still keeping the character development and the threaded storyline that runs through the series going.

A Trick of the Light returns the story to Three Pines. Clara, the most important of the Three Pines characters to the series is finally getting her first real gallery show to showcase her art. Nearly 50 years old, she has worked in obscurity on the edge of the art world and thought of as a lesser artist in comparison to her husband Peter. But the series has always understood that Clara is the better artist, just not recognized.

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Books By or About Dietrich Bonhoeffer on the 70th Anniversary of his Death

Dietrich Bonhoeffer was executed on April 9, 1945.  In honor of that date I wanted to post about the best books I have read on Bonhoeffer.  I waited later in the day to post this because in the past several of his books went on sale in honor of this anniversary.  Unfortunately that does not seem to be the case today. (This is edited of a post from a couple years ago.)

Biographies

If you read just one biography of Bonhoeffer, I think it should be:

Dietrich Bonhoeffer 1906-1945

Dietrich Bonhoffer: 1906-1945 by Ferdinand Schlingensiepen

(Bookwi.se Review)

This biography was published in English in June 2010.  Schlingersiepen was a close friend of Eberhard Bethge and is one of the founders of the International Bonhoeffer Society.  This biography was first published in German in 2005 and was the first modern biography that was the result of the completion of Bonhoeffer’s complete papers that were published in 16 volumes.  This is the best modern biography of Bonhoeffer.  But it is also very expensive.  Right now is it $14.39 on Kindle and out of print in English.  If you do not want to spend that much, then you should read:

Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy

Bonhoeffer: Pastor, Martyr, Prophet, Spy by Eric Metaxas

(Bookwi.se Review)

Metaxas has written the first really popular level biography of Bonhoeffer.  And it has sold very well which means that you can easily find it and it is relatively cheap.  I picked up my copy for $1.99 on kindle a couple years ago.  Right now the Kindle version is $12.99 and the paperback is $15.05 (but there are lots of used copies).

The strength of Metaxas is that it feels like a novel.  It is very fast paced and written in a very accessible prose.  The negative is that Metaxas is not a Bonhoeffer scholar, makes mistakes on the history (mostly minor) and like to use creative language.  In the end Bonhoeffer ends up looking like a modern American Evangelical in many areas.

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Strange Glory: A Life of Dietrich Bonhoeffer by Charles Marsh 

I picked up the audiobook of this earlier this week but have not started it yet. It is the most recent of the full biographies and has been very well reviewed.  But like much about Bonhoeffer, it is not cheap.  The Kindle Edition is $16.14 but the paperback which will be released at the end of the month is $13.46 for pre-order.  If you want the kindle edition, I would advise waiting for a couple weeks because it is likely to drop to at least the paperback price.  (I get a lot of these expensive books on audio, both because I like to listen to audiobooks, but also because I buy credits to purchase audiobook in bulk at Audible, so each credit ends up being just over $9).

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