Discovering Your Heart with the Flag Page Test by Mark Gungor

It has been a while since I have read this. I think there is likely still some value in the Flag personality system, but there are a lot of personality tests and many of those are readily available.
If you are considering a Laugh Your Way to a Better Marriage or doing a Flag Page test, I would encourage you to read this post first. And then maybe read the book The Great Sex Rescue.

Takeaway: We can always learn more about ourselves.

If you read this blog regularly you may know that my wife and I are leading small group for newly married couples.  We finished the curriculum early, so we decided to have the group take the Flag Page test. It is yet another personality test, but I think it is both very easy to take and useful to discuss in a small group setting like ours.

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The Reality Bug (Pendragon Book 4) by D.J. MacHale

The Reality Bug (Pendragon)Summary: As an adult these are just good enough that I keep reading/listening if I can find them free.

This is another power of free illustration.  I found the audiobook free for the first book on Audible.com.  Liked the series and bought the second book.  The second book was not as good so I decided not to buy the third book.  Then found it free from the Overdrive library system.  The third book was even less entertaining than the second, so I decided to just stop.  But then I found book four free on Overdrive as well and I didn’t see anything else that was really interesting.  So I listened to book four.

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Heaven is For Real: A Little Boy’s Astounding Story by Todd Burpos and Lynn Vincent

Heaven is for Real: A Little Boy's Astounding Story of His Trip to Heaven and Back

Takeaway: I am not sure all of the interest in heaven is completely positive.

I want to say up front, I am very skeptical about this book.  I am very skeptical about anything that is based heavily on the account of a young child.  There was an extended section in Mistakes Were Made, But Not By Me about how easy it is to get children to give detailed accounts of things that never happened.  Things that you think children could not know about, horrible things, children can talk about with candor and sincerity.  The children are not ‘lying’ they are telling you want what you want to hear and you are hearing what you want.  This can be true with adults as well.  We do many things in an attempt to justify our own actions and make ourselves feel better.  Todd Burpo says repeatedly throughout the book that he tried hard not ask leading questions or suggest things that would influence Colton (the son that goes to Heaven).  But it is impossible to independently verify anything about Colton’s trip to heaven or the family’s influence on Colton.  So we have to take their word for it.

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The Pursuit of Holiness by Jerry Bridges

The Pursuit of HolinessTakeaway: God wants us to be holy.

I, and I think many modern Christians, have an difficulty getting my mind around holiness. While I know that there are several passages that encourage us to “Be Holy as God is Holy”, I  have been tainted in my understanding of holiness by the legalism that some Christians of the past 150 years. I believe that a mix of social progressivism, post-millennial understanding of Christ return, and the pietist denominations means that there was a greater focus on external issues of holiness, to the detriment of internal holiness. It is always easier to create rules and follow them than it is to truly focus on heart issues of holiness. After all, what is harder, not playing cards, not drinking alcohol, not dancing or not being jealous of someone else, not desiring what someone else has, and not calling someone a fool in your heart.

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Satan Loves You: A novel by Grady Hendrix

Satan Loves YouTakeaway: No matter how serious the topic, sometimes it is good to just laugh.

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One of the chapters that I really enjoyed with David Dark’s Sacredness of Questioning Everything was about Questioning our Offendedness.  It is easy to be offended when people do not believe as you do or seem to make fun of what you consider essential.  David Dark has a useful understanding of being able to laugh at yourself and your beliefs.  Whenever you are offended instead of seeking after the understanding, hurt or incredulity that is often root of humor I think  it can help to build a bridge toward relationship instead of pushing people away.

I heard of Satan Loves You when a friend on Goodreads.com (a social network for readers) wrote a quick review of it.  It sounded like a fun bit of satire.  And I like satire and humor.  Christopher Moore’s Lamb: The Gospel According to Biff and Piers Anthony’s Incarnations of Immortality series are two very different takes on how different authors have attempted to make fun of religion through fiction.  (Norman Mailer’s The Gospel According to the Son is a negative example.)

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The Warlock (Book 5) by Michael Scott

The Warlock (The Secrets of the Immortal Nicholas Flamel)Takeaway: Quite a recovery for the series. Probably best book so far. Very interesting cliff hanger.

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As I get older, I have less and less interest in long series.  Maybe it is impatience.  Maybe it is justs that there are so many good books.  But I do still read series fiction.  In part it is because a long series can develop characters in ways that traditional single novels cannot.  But series are often very uneven.  After book four, I was almost read to drop this series.  I felt like book four was just treading water.

Book 5 was much better.  It really developed the story, gave lots of depth to the characters (I really like that the good and bad characters are not just two dimensional characters.)  The twins at the center of the story also were characterized better this book.  The last book I complained about the lack of motivation for the actions, but this book was much better about that.

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ReChurch: Healing Your Way Back To The People of God by Stephen Mansfield

ReChurch: Healing Your Way Back to the People of GodTakeaway: As with many other areas of life, holding grudges against the church hurts you more than the church.

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Stephen Mansfield has become well known for writing about the faith of politicians.  His books on Bush, Obama, Delay, Palin and Churchhill have sold well and helped Mansfield become a regular on the talk show and speaker circuit.  I have not read any of those books, so I cannot speak to them.  I did read God and Guinness and thought it was decent. ReChurch is a very different book from all of those.

Stephen Mansfield before he became a writer, speaker and consultant, was a pastor.  For ten years he was the pastor of a growing church until a disagreement with church elders left him without a church, job and bitter.  He does not give details about the incident, but does talk frankly about the hurt.

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For Us, The Living: A Comedy of Customs by Robert Heinlein

For Us, The Living: A Comedy of CustomsTakeaway: There is a reason that ‘lost novels’ were lost in the first place.  Only attempt if you are a very big fan of Heinlein.

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I found this on the Overdrive library system.  So I checked it out for free and I would advise that if you are going to attempt it, you find it for free as well.

It is not a good novel.  It was Heinlein’s first novel and it was never published while he was alive.  It has an amazing amount of material that he was able to later use in other books.

As one of the best 20th century Science Fiction writers, he made a huge impact on generations of writers and readers.  But in the 350 or so pages of text, there is only about 50 pages of story.  The rest is fairly pedantic explication of the world that we end up seeing in later works.

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Committed: A Skeptic Makes Peace with Marriage by Elizabeth Gilbert

Committed: A Love StoryTakeaway: Marriage can be scary, and that is not necessarily bad if it makes you think before getting married.

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I have not read or watched Eat, Pray, Love.* Honestly, I just have not had much interest in it.  But I was interested in this book.  While I DO NOT think that everyone should get married, I do like to read about marriage and how to strengthen those marriages that do happen.

Gilbert starts with a very unsentimental take on marriage.  She is broken and devastated over her divorce.  She meets a guy equally negative on marriage after his divorce.  And they live together with the stated commitment to never marry.

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Being Consumed: Economics and Christian Desire by William Cavanaugh

Being Consumed: Economics and Christian DesireTakeaway: I like the interesting take on the Eucharist and consumerism.  But the book as a whole was disappointing.

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This is my second book on a Christian view of economics in a week.  I am not sure why I read in themes.  The two books have very different methods.  In God’s Economy, Jonathan Hargrove-Wilson writes about his own experiences of conversion to ‘God’s Economy’ and how he has tried to live out that conversion.  In Being Consumed, William Cavanaugh writes as an academic theologian (although one that is most known as the author of Torture and Eucharist).

Both authors reject, simple free market/socialist dichotomies.  The first chapter of Being Consumed discusses what makes and does not make a free market. This is my favorite chapter because he directly takes on the understanding of the free market economy right off the bat.   His second chapter is about our relationship to goods.  The biggest weakness of this chapter is that Cavanaugh wants to talk about goods as only tangible things.  So when he discusses the movement away from making things, he means physical things.  Like many others, he mistakenly believes that ideas, intellectual property, creative acts are somehow different than cars, plows or clothes.  While it is a common understanding, it completely misses the economic reality of the digital world.  In general, I strongly agree with the theological reflections on work that are in this chapter.  But the dependence on the material-ness of work, makes it difficult to discuss in the real world.  It is not only new economic jobs that are not material, but jobs of teacher, pastor, musician, counselor that work outside the traditional creation of objects.

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