Summary: A book that is hard to recommend, because it needs a lot of caveating. The right person will find it helpful, most will not.
I have a ambivalent attitude toward reading the mystics. I value mystical thinking and practice, but I tend to find reading them an exercise in frustration. Mystics are often vague and contradictory. They often use language in unusual ways. But there is often still real help there.
Part of my ongoing reading about discernment is about how we apply what we learn even when there is not definitive directions. I was listening to a talk by Sean Rowe, the new presiding Bishop of the Episcopal Church and he said (my paraphrase) that we like to talk about discernment, and discernment is good, but the point of discernment is to eventually chose a path and follow it. That is a helpful point and one that I think DeMello needs to hear (or say).
What DeMello is doing here is not saying, “give up and stay where you are,” but “acknowledge where you are and pay attention.” His rough summary is that we don’t change by trying to force ourselves to do hard things, but by paying attention and allowing the Holy Spirit to bring awareness to us.








