Summary: God has created you to be who you are, not to be like someone else.
I picked Becoming Who You Are up on a whim. I had some promotional credits from Audible and needed to use them on something cheap. It caught my eye because it was about Thomas Merton. I read Merton’s Seven Storey Mountain in college or soon after and enjoyed it but I have not picked up anything else by him, although I keep meaning to.
James Martin, the author has been on my radar as well, but again, just not enough time to read everything that pricks my interest.
Becoming Who You Are is short (98 pages, just over 2 hours in audio). It is a meditation on Thomas Merton, Henri Nouwen, Jesus, and a few others. But really, it is Martin’s recounting of how these people helped Martin discover what it means to be himself.
Merton is known for his discussion of the True Self and the False Self. The basic idea of the book is that to become the person that you want to be, you need to become the person that God made you to be. Striving to become like Merton, Nouwen, or Mother Teresa will not make us a better Christian or more like what God wants for us, because God made us with a unique personality and purpose.
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