Takeaway: Mr Rogers really was wise.
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Over the weekend there were a bunch of sales on kindle books. I picked this up for $0.44. And at that price is was a steal. The kindle price is now up to almost $10 so much less attractive.
This is a very short books, in paper it looks like a gift book size. In audio it is only 75 minutes.
It was edited by Fred Roger’s wife from various speeches and articles that he wrote. Each page has a few lines, just one thought. There are a couple roughly themed chapters, but really this is intended to be browsed through looking for the nugget that will speak to you where you are right now.
I do not have kids of my own, but nanny my two nieces (2 and 3). I think I highlighted about a third of the book. What Mr Rogers seems to be good at is encouraging parents to be good parents. This seems to be the theme of the book:
Looking back over the years of parenting that my wife and I have done with our two boys, I feel good about who we are and what we’ve done. I don’t mean we were perfect parents. Not at all. Our years with our children were marked by plenty of inappropriate responses. Both Joanne and I can recall many times when we wish now we’d said or done something different. But we didn’t, and we’ve learned not to feel too guilty about that. What gives me my good feelings is that we always cared and always tried to do our best. Our two sons are very different one from the other; yet, at the core of each of them there seems to be a basic kindness, a caring, and a willingness to try. I’ve heard young parents complain about the way they were treated by their own parents, and they say, “œI’ll never make that mistake with my kids!” And probably the most honest response to that is, “œPerhaps you won’t make that mistake, but you’ll surely make your own different ones.” Well, we certainly made our share of mistakes.
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