Book Reviews

The Good News About Marriage: Debunking Discouraging Myths about Marriage and Divorce by Shaunti Feldhahn

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Summary: Despite what you might have heard, marriage is actually doing pretty well these days.

One of the reasons I like to read good social science is that much of the world is actually doing pretty well. Of course, we would like things to be better than they are, but stories about the world doing pretty well don’t sell well. So we tend to hear about how bad the world is.

If you want a Christian perspective about how the world is doing I would first commend Bradley Wright’s Upside, which generally looks at a variety of different ways of measuring the world, happiness, economics, health, etc.

Shaunti Feldhahn, who became well know because of her For Men Only and For Women Only books has stayed on the same general theme and instead of focusing on what men and women need to know about their spouse, is writing this book to encourage people more generally about marriage.

Her main point is that Christians in particular have been emphasizing the problems of marriage in order to uphold its importance. But in doing so, we are likely discouraging couple from either getting married, or if married, communicating that marriage is primarily hard work.

Instead Feldhahn starts with the divorce rate and shows why what we all think we know is wrong. The rate of divorce has never been 50% or higher in the general population and it has been decreasing steadily since the high point of around 1980. She estimates that first marriages have less than 30 percent chance of getting a divorce. And later marriages, and more highly educated couples have even lower rates of divorce.

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Storm Front (The Dresden Files, Book 1) by Jim Butcher

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Reposting this 2010 review because the Kindle Edition is on sale for $1.99.

Cover of "Storm Front (The Dresden Files,...
Cover of Storm Front (The Dresden Files, Book 1)

Takeaway: A fun modern fantasy (that was the basis for the short lived tv show.)

After I moved to Georgia, and before I started being a nanny for my nieces I used to have a lot of TV running in the background when I was doing data entry.  Previously I had not had the benefit of either Tivo or cable, now I had both.  I watched all of Angel and Buffy the Vampire Slayer over the span of a couple months.  (I had not seen any of either previously.)

One other short lived show that I enjoyed was The Dresden Files (Hulu link if you are interested).  I knew that it was based on a series of novels by Jim Butcher, but I have not gotten around to reading any of them before now.

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2014 Bookwi.se Year in Review

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Last night I read my post on my 2014 plans for Bookwi.se. I am not sure I accomplished any of them except for posting less. I posted a full 1/3 less posts in 2014 than 2013. And I still probably posted too much with 917 posts. But the good news is that my traffic is basically the same (down just a couple percentage points) with 1/3 less posts (and that does not include the increase in RSS and email subscriptions.)

And I am pleased that my book reviews are getting more traffic as a percent of the total traffic. I know I could read different books that would drive more traffic. New books, especially books of authors that will help drive traffic to my reviews, get a ton more traffic than reading older books. But I want to make decisions on my book reading based on interest, importance and quality, not traffic.

I know that you as a reader probably don’t care, but this year was financially better as well. I was able to have advertisers all year long and only rarely had an unfilled advertising spot. My Amazon referral income is stable even with less posts about free and/or sale kindle books. And I was able to give a token $5 a review to all the contributors.

This is still not a money making project. With advertising and referral income (before expenses) I am averaging just under $2 a post. But I doing something I enjoy and I hope readers get some benefit from it.

Below are the most read reviews of the year. 

Discovering Your Heart with the Flag Page Test by Mark Gungor

This is a 2011 post that has good search traffic and is constantly read. I find it odd that this has been leaps and bounds my most read book review. But I will take it.

Sex, Mom and God by Frank Schaeffer

This is another book that has consistent search traffic, but less suitable searches. The book is good but most searchers are not actually looking for a review of the book. The book itself is a good memoir about Frank Schaeffer and his relationship to his mom and how that altered some of the ways he thought about sex. Some he thought were good and some he has turned away from as he aged.

Unbroken: A Movie Review

This is the second newest post on the list. It is not a book review but a movie review. I was able to go to an advance screening and while I think the movie was technically well done, I think it missed the essential message of grace and forgiveness that was at the heart of the popularity of the book.

What Wives Wish their Husbands Knew about Sex: A Guide for Christian Men

I reposted this book earlier in the year because it was briefly free on kindle, but most of the traffic is from pinterest. I get a good bit of pinterest traffic, but as you will see below, it is mostly for the young adult book reviews. This book is by four counselors and psychologists and I think mostly pretty good. There is an occational “˜Christians can have mind blowing sex’ problem, but most of the book is really good.

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Bookwi.se Favorite Books 2014 (Non-Fiction)

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It always feels much harder to pick my favorite non-fiction books. I feel like I read a lot more non-fiction than fiction, but this year it was 73 fiction and 80 non-fiction, so very close. The difference is that non-fiction is primarily about ideas. So when I review non-fiction and talk about non-fiction I tend … Read more

Bookwi.se Favorite Books of 2014 – Fiction

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Favorite books of the year lists are the ultimate in subjectivity. Yes, there is a thing that is called a good book. But I tend to think that the book that lots of people like is worth picking over one that is technically excellent, but many did not actually like (The Magician trilogy is a good example.) And more variable than anything, books often speak (or not) to the place we are in life. One person’s amazing books isn’t amazing to the next person because they have experienced the world (or at least that particular time) differently.

So my list of books here are just the ones that at the end of the year, on the day I wrote out this list, the ones that I picked. (My list of non-fiction books will be tomorrow.) Also if you missed it, Bookwi.se Contributor Emily Flury posted her list of her favorite books and their companion movies yesterday.

The links below are to the full reviews

Lila: A Novel by Marilynne Robinson

I was really reluctant to read the companion book Gilead. It took me forever to actually pick it up. But when I did, I liked it. Gilead as an old preacher telling his life story to a young son that will never know him because was touching. But I thought it was a little slow and plodding.

Lila, telling the story from a different person’s perspective, was anything but plodding. It was a the best fictional story of grace that I have read. It was a bit old fashioned and definitely a literary book. But it was excellently written and well worth reading. I am planning on starting a second reading of it this week.

The Martian by Andy Weir

I have not been kept on the edge of my seat listening to an audiobook for a while. Although I am not completely sure why I was so entranced. It was well written, with characters I liked. I wanted to figure out how the astronaut was going to survive life on Mars, but I never really seriously thought he wasn’t going to survive. It wasn’t the ending that was in question, it was the process. As there was all kinds of great science and MacGuyver ingenuity going on.

A Ring of Endless Light by Madeleine L’Engle

There have been a few years when most of my favorite fiction books have been young adult. This year I read a lot less young adult books than in recent years and much of what I did read, I wasn’t really impressed with. But A Ring of Endless Light was proof to me that serious literary young adult fiction is not only possible, but important. One of the reasons I have been such a fan of John Green is that I just did not read really good young adult fiction that took the reader seriously when I was a teen. But A Ring of Endless Light is proof that high quality young adult fiction existed (whether I would have been prepared to read it as a teen or not.)

Bruno, Chief of Police by Martin Walker (and the rest of the series 2, 3, 4, 5, 6)

Over the past couple years, I have been enjoying more mystery books. It was not a genre that I really liked much prior to the last few years. Being introduced to Dorothy Sayers, J Mark Bertrand, and Martin Walker have changed my view of the potential of mysteries. The Bruno series especially is enjoyable, but it is more about the characters and the setting than the mystery. Bruno is the chief of police (and only police officer) of a small french village. He sees his job as more about preventing crime and mediating between people than arresting people. Because of this he cares about the people and the people care about him, Walker creates a story that I want to read. Also I love all of the descriptions of French culture, food and wine. Every book in the series made me want to go visit France.

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The Zimzum of Love: A New Way of Understanding Marriage by Rob and Kristen Bell

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Summary: A decent (quick) book on the Christian understanding of marriage without a lot of Christian language.

I generally don’t like reviewing books that have a lot of controversy. So I have not reviewed many of Rob Bell’s books (but I liked Velvet Elvis and Sex God). I went to college with Rob and Kristen (they were a year in front of me) so I have paid attention to Rob’s ministry. (I didn’t really know Kristen, but Rob is one of those people that it is hard not to know who he was at college.)

I originally did not have any interest in picking up The Zimzum of Love. There are a ton of marriage books being jointly written by well known pastor couples recently. I tend to avoid book trends because they are often following the trend, not writing good books.

Books and Culture’s parody review of Zimzum of Love did not help my desire to read the book, although I don’t think that the parody was all that helpful and after reading the book I didn’t think it was all that accurate either. (Although it does have a few good points.)

Then I read Richard Beck’s review on his blog Experimental Theology (I am a regular reader). As you might expect, it is like Beck and Jason Hood (the Books and Culture reviewer) had read two very different books. But mostly it felt like Hood was taking issue with Rob as a persona than really dealing with the book as a book.

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Dietrich Bonhoeffer’s “Letters and Papers from Prison”: A Biography by Martin Marty

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Summary: The history of how and why this Bonhoeffer’s Letters and Papers from Prison spread so widely and became so influential.

At this point I have read far more about Bonhoeffer than by Bonhoeffer. That is not to say I haven’t read Bonhoeffer, but to say I have read a lot about Bonhoeffer, especially over the past several years since writing on him seems to have exploded.

I read Letters and Papers from Prison in college soon after I first read Cost of Discipleship and somewhat before I read Love Letters from Cell 92.

It is actually the now out of print Love Letters from Cell 92 that really humanized Bonhoeffer for me and moved him from abstract theologian to real live human person. About the same time as I was reading Love Letters from Cell 92, I started University of Chicago Divinity School and had Martin Marty as a professor.

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Unapologetic: Why, Despite Everything, Christianity Can Still Make Surprising Emotional Sense by Francis Spufford

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Summary: Maybe, at least for some, the right apologetic is not about logic, but emotion and experience.

It would be hard to over emphasize how many people I respect have been fans of this book. It has been reviewed (and I think generally reviewed accurately) in Books and Culture (long), Christianity Today (short), the New York Times, the Telegraph and the Gospel Coalition (critical but appreciative). (Although not everyone likes it.)

The central idea of the book is that given our culture (and Spufford is writing to a secular UK here, not primarily to an Evangelical US) the idea that we should try to prove our Christianity through logic or proof is the wrong move.

As Alan Jacobs says in the opening of his review, apologetics should be more concerned with rhetoric than dialectical tasks, in other words, follow the interest of the listener, not your own desire to be right.

So Spufford is concentrating here on why, for him, Christianity can be an emotionally right choice, even if he can’t prove it scientifically or logically as many of the New Atheists are challenging Christians to do (or vice versa).

Spufford starts with trying to find the shared belief that we all have about this life. That central shared idea is HPtFtU, which stands for the Human Propensity to F*ck things Up (and he abbreviated most of the time.) Christians call this sin, but I think Spufford is right that calling it the HPtFtU feels more accurate. We can debate the reality or transmission method of original sin, but pretty much no one can debate that HPtFtU is real. We all have been a part of it and we all have seen others participate in it.

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Witness to Hope: The Biography of Pope John Paul II by George Weigel

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Takeaway: Regardless of whether you are Protestant or Catholic, John Paul II was important.

Last year, I picked up Witness to Hope for Kindle when it was on sale. But the size and time commitment kept me from actually reading it. As much as I would like this blog to not influence my reading, I often don’t pick up long books because of my attempt to keep up, with assistance from several regular contributors, a 5 review a week schedule.

So, I do not often make room for a biography that clocks in at more than 1000 pages. At the same time, I tend to hate abridged audiobooks. If it was important enough to put in the book initially, it was probably important enough to read later.

But when I noticed that the audiobook of Witness to Hope was in the Scribd audiobook library, even though it is abridged, I picked it up.

The actual content is just under half of the original book. And it feels like an abridgment. The biggest problem with the abridgment is that it focuses too much on the political life of John Paul II as Pope and not enough on the spiritual influence. Spiritual is undoubtedly there, but when you compare the time devoted, it seems less important.

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